I have really been doing my best on DBing focused on getting back to work, starting to drop the rope and approaching detachment. Oh I also went dancing this weekend.
Keep at it. Focus on you. GAL. Keep moving forward.
Originally Posted by Rockon
I don’t know if the M will survive/resurrect but there has been a shift in that I don’t want to be in R with her. I am repulsed and I have anger. Now I still care about her and hope her R with our kids improves (there have been a lot of shifting dynamics there) and I am managing and dealing much better with my emotions now.
Don’t be surprised when there is another shift. The LBS’ path has lots of ups and downs, twists and turns, as one finds their peace.
Repulsion and anger will be processed and fade in time. Feel what you feel. Keep walking your path.
Originally Posted by Rockon
Just the look of respect in my close man friends’ eyes with being back at work is a shot in the arm.
Excellent!
And yes, quite a shot in the arm.
You chose this job out of all the offers. You chose it. Not for W, rather for you. Keep building upon that. Do for you.
Have a great day.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
