I have really been doing my best on DBing focused on getting back to work, starting to drop the rope and approaching detachment. Oh I also went dancing this weekend.
Thank you DnJ, R2C, Boat for your input.
Kind, I am trying to DB. I don’t know if the M will survive/resurrect but there has been a shift in that I don’t want to be in R with her. I am repulsed and I have anger. Now I still care about her and hope her R with our kids improves (there have been a lot of shifting dynamics there) and I am managing and dealing much better with my emotions now.
Just the look of respect in my close man friends’ eyes with being back at work is a shot in the arm.
