One more question for today: would it be a bit of a 180 and also detaching if I were to create and send W a list of property/items for us to start divvying up? Recall this is our 2nd time discussing D and the 180 would be not fighting it and, instead cooperating by taking the initiative to start thinking about this. Doing this also seems consistent with detaching, acknowledging W's choice, and supporting her in executing that decision. Thanks, as always.
