Did you listen validate and create attraction? In my opinion now, you ought to go all in - new wardrobe, cull your friend group to a circle of faithful servant leader men who have solid boundaries.
And figure it out lean strong muscle and attractive posture. Not for her. For you
Thanks for your comment! I certainly listened, I think I validated, but I'm not sure about the "creating attraction" part (I just received the book). And yes I'm motivated to fix these things, primarily for my own self-image. I've already given up on "us" in my head since it seems her attraction is too far gone. But we'll see what happens in the future.
