I removed the overt sexual content and language from your post.
We have people from all walks of life reading here. Please keep posts within the guidelines. If you have to preface a post with “Warning - Sexual Content” you’re going too far.
I understand there are many topics discussed here: sex, making love, affairs, cheating, and so on. And we can at times forget we are not just sitting around the campfire talking among ourselves, that lots of folks are reading along too. Be mindful of your chosen wording.
Thanks
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.