and don't tell her any details about anything. Your new behavior, what you think about anything, why do are doing anything etc.
H:"I am going out" W:"With who?" H:"A few friends" W:"Who" H:"People you don't know"
H:"I have something important to do" W:"What" H:"Nothing you need to worry about"
W:"Are you OK?" H:"I am great!" (Or any other words like terrific or wonderful and amazing ect)
W:"Why did you move the bed?" H:"I decided I wanted it there." (Use the most simplest statement to get the point across, then do not give any more details)
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712