Thanks, DnJ. I should've been clearer. The friend is my college roommate. W has known him for ~18 years though with her social anxiety she's spent progressively less time around him and his family (special events here and there over the years). Still, I like the general idea of simply stating the memorial service and funeral information and leaving it at that. I appreciate the clear guidance during an otherwise cloudy time in my mind. Have a great Sunday too!