A YouTube psychologist I watched said "every relationship has an adored and an adorer, and it's better for the woman to be the adorer". I don't know if it's valid but I've definitely been the "adorer" in this one.
You have to flip this. Your women (this one or the next) need to pursue you, not the other way round. It is importation to learn and implement as many Strong male traits as you can in the shortest time possible.
Originally Posted by buck1
She's clearly very confused with all her thoughts. She mentioned she would love to seek out some new male friends (but "she's not interested in going on dates").
She is not confused. She desires something you are not currently providing. Figure out what that is and give it to her.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
