Not even sure where to start

[Ready2Change]

Hell not sure what to do to become more attractive.

Start here:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2947513#Post2947513

Most guys are clueless. I gave you a few categories to start working on.

You know the 80/20 rule? Men's BEHAVIOR is the 80 where a woman's looks are the 80 when it comes to attraction.

2x4 time:
"She asked if I was good with what she said and I was but wish she would have told him that she wanted this and not me"

You have to get everything in alignment. Your core values with your words with your tones and your body language.

W:"Are you good with what I said?"
H:"No." Then crickets and walk away. Stop engaging in conversations with with her.

All the rules have changed.

No more discussions. STFU is your new rule. Every time you speak, you lose. Do not share your thoughts about anything. You use your words with her for two things: 1) Validating her emotional state, 2) build attraction and sexual tension.

Sounds like you are still having conversations with her. If required, treat her politely like the hostess at a restaurant. End convos as quick as possible. You ALWAYS have more important things to do than engage in conversations with her.



You will not get understanding by having discussions with her. You have to pull back and do your own research. You will gain much more understanding having discussions with us.

any suggestions resources about seduction.

Look at my book list.

Put your sexual needs on hold.

Yea she told me last night she doesn't want to have sex anymore

Is that YOUR decision or HERS? You better reframe this really quickly. Not her decision...YOURS.