Sex is often used by the wayward as a guilt management technique, leading up to and sometimes after bomb day.
Mine certainly did.
When my lawyer told her the inconsistency of her actions, she then flipped it and said she felt unsafe and so that’s why she did it.
Anything to avoid being responsible for her own decisions and behaviour.
The absolute number 1 thing at bomb day is to stop any intimacy. It just prolongs the pain for the LBS, and allows the wayward/walk away to cake eat their way around guilt.
