Not even sure where to start

[Sunflyer]

Yea kind of my thoughts at this point. Feel like she is a stubborn woman and very decisive and whenever she makes a decision she goes with it. I ultimately don't think this is what she wants and she may realize that layer down the road.

My W is the same. I think we all feel like this is some oddity at first. She might wake up down the road, but you can't depend on it.

Just all happening so fast. How do you focus on moving on so quickly? Just wish I understood all of this and where it all comes from.

She has likely been planning this for a long time. As in months, at least, or longer.

Lawyer asked me if there was another guy. I honestly feel in my hear there isn't. She even made that clear when she told me she wanted the D.

Beware of this. I just found out there is OM involved in my situation. My wife would say things like the following during our marriage: "I take my marriage vows very seriously. If you ever cheat on me, I will kill you." I always took this as a joke since I presumed that she knew that I would never cheat on her, and have not come close to doing so. She would also venomously criticize others that cheated, like her cousin's XH.

You know what they say: The ones that protest the loudest...