You are on the front burner now. Your life, your priorities, your values, your daughter and family. I would not be home when she and her S arrive. And be out the door first in the am.
I thought you handled the convo pretty well in the am. Sounded upbeat forward focused and batting things done.
One correction I would offer. You said it’s time to let her lead. I beg to differ. Yes as far as the divorce goes sounds like that’s not you want so you are not driving that but you are your leader. You lead you and your family.
