I gets easier everyday to not want to reach out to him. Having you guys to bounce stuff off of has been therapeutic. I look forward to reading yalls responses everyday. Like I said earlier friends/family don't understand, they all just assume it's his nature. I know it's not him, I love this man and have loved this man for 34yrs, I feel sorry for him but I can't help him. I just don't want a divorce, I'm believing for God to intervene. There is and has been way too many people praying abt this situation. The Bible says where 2 or more are joined in his name it shall be done. I stand on those words.