It could be advice from his lawyer or he feels "safer" in texting. Texting is "safer" for them because they do not have to hear your voice, feel the emotion coming through your voice or see you. Whereas texting is just typing some words w/no emotion in them. If you text w/him, do not be quick in responding...wait a few hours before doing so and if he asks why you waited, just tell him that you have been busy. You do not want to come off as needy or sitting by the phone or computer waiting for him to contact you. Also, keep your emails business like. Think about what you are writing because he could very well be sharing the info with his lawyer. One more thing...unless it is an absolute emergency, do not initiate contact...leave that ball in his court.
The less distractions he has, the better so that he can focus on himself and healing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
