Go for the low hanging fruit first. Drop all of the non-attractive traits. Start adding attractive traits. Do not be supplicating. Always be on your purpose. Do not be boring. Accentuate your male traits. Do not be a simp.
What do you mean go for the low hanging fruit? Im not sure what non-attractive traits I have as she has told me she is still very much attracted to me. I feel like I maybe dress a little nicer now more than anything. Mostly because I was meeting with Lawyers and counselors but dont plan on stopping the dressing nicer. Maybe I break out some new cologne or something. Hell not sure what to do to become more attractive.
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Learn as much as you can about seduction. It is an indirect way to attract.
any suggestions resources on this besides just Google?
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Put your sexual needs on hold. If you do engage with her, she should be pleasantly surprised by your new behavior in bed. New behavior in bed EVERY time from this point forward. Do your research now. It is a lot of work, but worth it. From this point forward, you want her pursuing you for sex, not the other way round.
Yea she told me last night she doesnt want to have sex anymore right now because she feels like it gives me the wrong idea and confuses me. Which I get, but still like it! But not happening. I need to break it myself on my end as well
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
No more discussions. STFU is your new rule. Every time you speak, you lose. Do not share your thoughts about anything. You use your words with her for two things: 1) Validating her emotional state, 2) build attraction and sexual tension.
So going dark/dim here and not speaking to her unless she initiates it? I have the feeling that since she is so stubborn and decisive that she has moved past that point and if I do go dark its not going to matter for her.
