If you listen carefully, your h may tell on himself. Many of them like to talk and not be interrupted. They travel back in time to where they were emotionally stunted and then have to face those demons. If they can face them, they will then begin to move forward. They have to learn to accept that there were things totally out of their control and that they were not the blame for what transpired. Some parents validated one child other the other, a child may have been abandoned by one parent or even both. It is all about trauma that took place long ago.
Be patient, sit quietly and the answers will come.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
