We all come here looking for the magic bullet. The only magic bullet is to set her free and give her a chance to miss you. Until she misses you, she will feel like you are the person to blame for her unhappiness. Focus on your personal growth and make positive changes to your behavior.
You have found a good support place. Just keep posting. Others will be along...weekends are kinda slow.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
