Normal people do not switch gears light your h and our spouses have done. He began to transition into MLC about 12-18 months ago. It was a very subtle change. Please go back and think about what may have happened during that time period? Did he have a health scare? Did something happen in the family? What about work? Promotion, new job, added responsibilities, etc? Something always triggers the crisis. It just doesn't start up on it's own.
Now, I want you to think back then to what he may have said or exhibited around you? Any changes taking place, such as change in what foods he ate or drinks? Did he start changing the way he looked, i.e., haircuts, facial hair, dressing and his language? What about musical tastes? Many of them begin to show signs of changes that take them back in time to about 16-20. That is why I am asking all of these questions.
MLC doesn't happen over night....it takes months to get to the full blown crisis.
Hang in there and continue coming here to ask questions or bounce things off of us.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
