And it just makes me think of the two women I loved and married, and they both just quit without an ounce of effort with me. They both told me the same line at BD: “I have been trying so hard for so long to make it work.” Absolute bull****
That’s what people do. No point getting angry about it.
The number one thing you need to understand is that 90% of people want to be victims. They never want to take responsibility for their own actions or decisions.
It’s easy for her to tell her girlfriends and family “I had to leave, I felt so trapped, I waited so long for him to change.” Because she knows she’ll get sympathy and they’ll reinforce her decision. “Oh babe that sounds so tough, I can’t believe you were so patient, no wonder you ended up having to leave” blah blah blah
It’s the world we live in. You can either get angry about it, or you can accept there’s nothing you can do or say to change it, and get on with living your life.
The biggest problem with society today and the reason for most divorces - is people’s desire to be liked and right and to be victims.
It’s quite likely with divorces that one person is having an emotional or physical affair… I’d guess more than 75%.
How many people come out and tell their family and friends “Hey, I’ve left card because I got bored and wanted to bang the guy from accounts.”
No-one. Ever. The reason for MOST divorces, and yet you’ll never hear anyone admit they cheated.
She’s never going to take responsibility for things. She’s taking the honey because she genuinely believes she deserves it.
You can’t change entitlement. Best to just cut the cord and change the locks now.
Also, who cares about $10 for some honey and nail clippers. I know that for you it’s the principle, but $10 is a small price to pay to get away from this toxic person.
