Leading someone on making them believe you are emotionally available to satisfy your low self esteem is unhealthy for both parties.
Originally Posted by Terapin
I guess it's ideal to wait months or even years to work on yourself, get over the last relationship, etc, and then consider dating someone. But I don't always think that's realistic either.
Why is waiting a year to work on yourself and really understand the part you played in the divorce unrealistic?
