Go to youtube and search "zones of relationship". The video is 23:22. Watch it a couple times.
I believe you are stuck in the right hand column. If you can add new behaviors to move yourself towards the left, then you will be killing it. It is my observation that most guys arrive here in the left column.
He has 9 traits listed on the X axis. Might be a good place for you to start reflecting on new attractive behaviors that can keep you moving to the right of the matrix.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
