Been "getting a life" and practicing detachment all week. W made 1-2 comments about thing we should do as a family. Our daughter apparently asked if W has made a decision yet about getting divorced. W told her no and then told me about how she usually feels certain about decisions but isn't sure if D is right or not. I just offered some validation and said "I can see it is a touch choice" and left it at that. W also made 2-3 comments about things we should do in the future as a family to which I offered non-verbal acknowledgments that sounded OK and left it at that. Got out of the house to do some shopping for things for myself and our daughter. Made plans to see a professional sporting event with old friends (1 male, 2 female) in two weeks. Not sharing details with W. Am doing my best to demonstrate I am at peace with either decision about D. I have to admit: I feel genuinely at peace. I know I'm doing my best and, when I don't, I pivot or just work to do better at the next opportunity. Hope everyone else here is doing well.
