Ok Boat to make this year different/better and to answer your questions:
In the (not immediate) future a woman would be interested in dating me because I am interesting, fun, healthy, handsome and a gentleman. She would feel that I would give her attention and excitement, safety and security. I have good friends and family relationships and that is attractive.
She is behaving very self cantered yes. She was not a selfish person. But she has suffered a lot of pain - in her childhood and in our family.
“contributing to chaos and disorder with falling behind renovating our house and being disorganized A woman wants a strong, stable man who is able to accomplish tasks in a timely manner. Too little and too late on this one.” I have changed this about me.
“ A woman wants a strong stable man who isn't riddled with depression and anxiety. I see no progress here.” I have changed this about me.
“our collective emotional wounds and pain from familial trauma Not sure what this means but it doesn't sound good.” No it wasn’t good. But I am much better and am taking care of myself and family. W has just started therapy. Hope she finds it beneficial.
“ me not standing up to her when she mistreated me verbally and with disrespect at times. A woman wants a man to stand up to her when she is out of line. I see no progress here.” Boat, what would you suggest I do differently?
