I was never back and forth on moving out. I said I was staying in the bedroom and the main part of the house. I asked her what she had in mind when she talked about moving back in last fall and she then talked about herself moving back to our house from her moms into the basement suite.
I was open to delivering the mattress with my truck - then go get myself another one but I still haven’t moved it and she hasn’t asked again. I did facilitate family time through the winter yes but then I stopped.
I have gotten advice from a L but I haven’t hired one /paid any money yet.