Ok rock but you are forgetting how many back and forths you had to go through to just say no I’m not leaving. You didn’t do any of that from a position of strength and we wouldn’t know for sure about the mattress because last you said was you were going to deliver it because you didn’t want some random person in your house. Again, not a position of strength.
The fact is I don’t believe you ever really mentioned you were facilitating family time, you jumped at the chance every opportunity you had though. And if you did stop facilitating it’s because she stopped first.
You keep saying you want to learn, understand, do more, but again all you have to do is read your thread. It’s all there.
Originally Posted by Rockon
3 things I can do to not be weak and to show her I will not cave:
1. Get a lawyer and mediator. Make sure they understand my needs, priorities and wishes. Be responsible for myself and uphold taking care of our family.
2. Stand up for myself and our kids needs.
3, what you said, Boat
This is a microcosm of everything I mean. You already have a lawyer. You just said to me you already do stick up for yourself and family and than just agree with Boat. You only are gonna get what you give when it comes to DB. This list isn’t at all what was meant. What can you do differently Rock? Because right now you are stuck doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. We don’t know your wife Rock, you do though. What are things you can do to attract her to you?
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
