Latest update: made some progress on the financial statement, but then W went silent again on what's next. Have heard nothing from her L and frankly don't care when I do.

Going to see S17 at college next weekend. Campus is open for parents. He seems to be doing well overall, but there has been a lot of communicable disease spreading across campus lately, and unfortunately he got mono. His GF tested negative twice, but has now come down with something nasty; doctors think possibly tonsillitis. Flu and COVID tests both negative. Hope they are both feeling better.

W and I have occasional interactions regarding kids and parental matters. They are positive, and she is not unpleasant with me. She continues to make meals for me when she's home. No indications from her on any change of heart, nor do I expect any, frankly. I just STFU up and move on with my day.

Feel pretty good about myself these days. I continue to gradually clean up my downstairs space; it's going to have to be renovated regardless of what the future holds. I am on a music kick of late and play some music everyday, which helps my mood. Pursuing hobbies as well, and work has picked up. Busy.

Reserved a beach house for two weekends next season. Something W probably would not have been interested in and something I've never done before. Will invite the boys as custody agreement may permit. Gives me something to look forward to.


Me 59 W 47
T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023