Originally Posted by Rockon
3 things I can do to not be weak and to show her I will not cave:

1. Get a lawyer and mediator. Make sure they understand my needs, priorities and wishes. Be responsible for myself and uphold taking care of our family.

2. Stand up for myself and our kids needs.

3, what you said, Boat
Lip service Rock. Until you implement healthy boundaries you will continue to suffer immensely.