After a night’s sleep, I’ve decided that I’m going to do nothing with the evidence. I realise that saying something to H will push him further away. I will continue with my DBing and wait it out. I’m confident in seeing that the phone calls have lessened, and lessened in duration that maybe the DBing is working because I haven’t nagged H about XW for a weeks and weeks now. The contact between him and her has been without any of my meddling. What is happening between them is of their own accord. I still feel betrayed and today, I can’t stop tearing up.
Yes - what would you want to accomplish with exposure?
Knowledge is Power, you have it now dont give up your power by giving away your knowledge.
As usual this is not something that will resolve quickly- it is a marathon not a sprint
