Ok maybe I need a reminder of tough questions to face and answer.
I am not aware of her having retained a lawyer but right at BD, she took money from our shared account, as well as money her mom had given to both of us from the sale of her house as appreciation for our help with the move. And at that time and since she has told me many things she could and is considering doing to take money and assets from me. She talked about spousal support right away. And has brought up selling the house often.
