It is hard, but you are still on step one, a year after coming here, and what...15 months after bomb date? You ignore tough questions that are inconvenient. Just because it's hard doesn't mean it's not worth it, and it certainly doesn't mean that gets to be the excuse for a year.
Also not 100% where you are, but get ready, because child support and spousal support isn't always based on the here and now, your earning potential can and will be taken into account.
Also your STBXW isn't....IMO...going to take to kindly to you going after her for money the moment you made less, yet I didn't ever see a mention of her coming after your money. Just food for thought. I think you are coming up to the moment we've all been preparing you for.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
