Yes Joseph you have that right, I have done a lot of things poorly. Primarily in therapy I worked on treatment for PTSD.
I certainly have made more money than W until very recently at which time I do not have an income. Our financial approach worked reasonably well for me up until this time - I factored in supporting her basic needs fairly (informal spousal support) - and our youngest 2 kids needs (child support).
I have been working at this stuff (DB) because I believe it. It’s also hard. And I keep coming back for the blunt honest and kind input, rebukes, 2x4s and encouragement .
