URS0, I don't know your situation too well, but I feel for you. I know those feelings of confusion, loss, pain. Do you think her getting an L is adversarial in some way, or possibly just precaution? Either way, you almost can't expect a logical reaction about anything from the WAS during the separation and D process.
Post more updates if it helps you. Are you still about to move? And did you say why you were moving? Sorry if I missed it
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23