Oh, and I should've been clearer. W is VERY particular about when she wants to talk about anything serious. When she said "We should discuss our situation," she did not want to talk at that moment because our child was home. She meant over the weekend. She doesn't like talking in the a.m. before work (her anxiety around the upcoming day), when our child is home, or in the evening after about 7 or 8 p.m. (her anxiety building around the next day). So, I've just indicated that I agree with her and will be available, including suggesting opportunities to talk when all of her criteria for talking would be met while balancing "not sitting around waiting for your spouse" per Sandi's 37 rules.
