That is really clear thank you DnJ. In answer to your previous question about who initiated W and I collaborating to support eldest daughter in crisis, that’s layered:
D reached out to me first. I showed up for her with my full attention and support and then looped W in about the safety concerns. D texted W later that night asking for a letter for the courts from W and I in support of D and GD’s safety. W and I collaborated on that letter and I brought it to D. Other than that, it has been me responding and showing up for D.
Boat, my goals to accomplish here are to protect myself and our family assets and make certain youngest S’s needs are looked after. Top priorities for me are to keep and look after the house (I want to prepare to buy her out in time), look after needs of youngest S’s and myself (health, nutrition exercise etc), get back to work successfully, be there for my family (I have been caring about and supporting eldest daughter and granddaughter with their immediate basic needs).
