I knew there was something I could learn from that convo. Thanks for the feedback. Especially trying to problem solve. That’s the first time I’ve done that for her (that i can recall) since BD. So weird how easily it slipped out.

So in your hypothetical response, you were really saying “I’d like to sort out daycare payments asap. When do you expect to hear back from L”? I’ll admit that is confusing, so job well done haha. What is the theory or strategy for doing this? Just part of 180/flip the script to create mystery and possibly give her something to wonder about? She left the old Card29, so dont be old Card29?


Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23