I also mentioned the fact that we haven't talked about daycare payments, and she responded with "I'm waiting to hear back from L, then we can talk about daycare."
This is where I would be flipping the script:
H:"I would like to get this over with as quickly as possible. When do you expect an answer from your L?"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712