Suddenly a flood of texts with W this morning. She is finally getting S1 for a significant amount of time, 1 month after BD. She'll pick him up from daycare today and have him most of the week. We started talking about the S1 schedule, and she threw out dates through November. She was asking him for all of Thanksgiving week (also his bday week), so I pushed back on that. She will likely go back to her hometown (5 hours away) whenever she has him around the holidays, so I don't want him to be gone the entire week plus his birthday. She seems ok to negotiate that week.
She also just mentioned that she was taking the vacuum cleaner, which was not what we agreed on. "It's ridiculous that you get it while you also get x y z". I said "that's what we agreed on". "Well there was a lot going on in my head when we did the walk through." I wanted to say "tough ****", but I said "I know you need a vacuum. Can you find one on FB marketplace?" I also mentioned the fact that we haven't talked about daycare payments, and she responded with "I'm waiting to hear back from L, then we can talk about daycare." So it sounds like she's moving forward with D. Not a surprise, but it's an update
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23