H EW possibly DBing and I’m losing the battle

[KangaB]

Hi Valeska thank you for taking the time to write. I’m looking into how to have my parents number available and block all others.

I’m continuing with the boundaries and I have been tested. As you can see from my above post, things have taken a turn again.

The hardest thing is doing this when H is asking for reassurance. So I found out after my boundary setting from last week. H had phoned XW and had a chat to her and then rang me and told me that he was thinking of going OS with XW and the kids back to her country for a visit to get a rise out of me. When I didn’t take the bait, he admitted he was trying to get a rise up of me. He then told me he needed reassurance that I loved him and that I wanted to be in the marriage. What the hell? I’m so confused by all of this.

So appreciative of the feedback.

Very lost today.

Kanga