Hi DnJ - Thanks for making time to respond. W is 51. I am 49. 15th anniversary coming up this year. Cadet's welcome post is always helpful! How I wish I had all these resources memorized or that I was better "on-the-spot". You're spot on about rumination and festering. I've learned a great deal about forgiveness and focusing on solutions. It's been very helpful for me personally to shift my perspective. Again, I appreciate the response and look forward to contributing more broadly.
