DnJ

Two things:

When you say reconnecting, would the following be it… Initially asked for someone else to get my stuff he said no. It is between us. Last month he called at the spur of the moment and said give me your address to now to send your stuff. I said no again and said when I will pick it up.

Would the ow still be in place at this point? If so, I am confused do they stay around in reconnecting. When do they go away?

I am giving him time like job said. I will send one note next week to ask, not beg, for him to let me know when he is ready to return my stuff and leave it at that then take legal action thereafter in about a month.

How does that sound? Like job said giving him time to reconsider.