I don’t want this to be over I don’t want divorce or separation I want my H to be whole again and be back with the ones who love him most. But he’s not whole. He’s broken and a mess. And he needs to go live his reality. If he doesn’t I know he will do this again and again. He needs to come through this crisis on his own. I am kind of glad I won’t be around to watch it
Think about where you might be today (mentally, emotionally, physically) if H was still in your house living this MLC since December 2022. You would be nowhere near as far along, plus H’s long road would be even longer. You are exactly right to not want to be around the crisis everyday. Keep going!
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23