L directed me to read book Never Split the Difference and suggest I take this approach to getting best deal for myself and S’s needs.
The best deal for you is to keep the house, get child support and alimony.
Originally Posted by Rockon
Having said that, he also said that I need to be the one giving any lawyer I choose clear direction about what I need and want and what my values are.
You want the house, alimony and child support. Your values have nothing to do with it.
Originally Posted by Rockon
He said that the complexities of my personal situation and that of my S would not be adequately served in the court and bleak present financial reality means that it’s in my best interest to be remain amicable, cooperative and firm.
I have a feeling you will use this excuse to cave on the house, child support and alimony because of making your STBXW angry.
