I can't find anything on the 'friend zone' but I've read quite a few success stories where being the best friend and supporter seems to have been key to reconciliation. In other literature I've read this also seems to be the case - that the love can grow back once interactions are positive (particularly '5 languages of love' - can't decide if that one is real wisdom or claptrap, want to try out the theories!!).
You are in the "friend zone" when your love interest is having sex with some else and not you. You are in the friend zone when you are still doing favors, ignoring bad behaviors, interacting with them more than you are with other people etc.
Do you want a friend or a lover? I interact with my lady way different than anyone else.
I strongly suggest that you (everyone here) learn some seduction skills. I view seduction as indirect attraction. Pulling away when you want to pursue is one of those skills.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
