You get the best deal you can for yourself. You protect the family assets. If she has a change of heart in the future, than you can merge assets again.

Step back, look at your sitch as if you were giving advise to a coworker. That is the logic side. You remove your emotional side from the decision process.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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