DNJ, Kind and R2C are true lifesavers. Iolieta I know you feel lost, like you want to reach out. Kind is so right, he needs to crawl through his mess alone. To be honest I wish my STBXH left dark from day 1, maybe we would have been better off now, maybe he would have hit rock bottom sooner. The “clinging boomerang” is the worst kind. Constant contact will drive you absolutely nuts. I never knew about a MLC until I jumped on here. These “almost 50” kind are not much fun. Keep doing you, keep finding you. I have thoroughly enjoyed learning about just being me, minus the H. And I completely agree with just a full blown makeover and wardrobe.time to change it up and step outside youe comfort zone and get some looks and stares and boost your confidence
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
