Originally Posted by Kind18
And talk to Ready2Change about working on your attractiveness. He’s the guru on that.
LOL...Most of us arrive here "Comfortable" and could use a jump start in making ourselves more attractive. Make daily grooming a habit, or better yet a ritual. Enjoy the process of taking care of yourself. Also focus on enjoying every little moment of the day. Take several deep breathes right when you wake up and enjoy the feelings that come with breathing. Same thing while showering, enjoy all the sensations. The warm water as well as all the smells of your soaps and shampoos etc. If they do not smell good to you, toss them and get some that you like.

Look into getting new clothes with a new style you want to try.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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