I've been reading through quite a few threads in different parts of the forum. Many of them say that even when spouses are separated they are still in contact with each other, often even meeting in person. I don't have that right now - I send the occasional practical text (e.g. do you know where the garden loppers are) and get a response but that's it. I'm wondering about sending a newsy e-mail maybe once a week. Is this stupid? Should I just let well alone? Worried that he will think I've moved on and don't care that he has left when the opposite is true!