Struggling again today :-( I know he's been to a counselling session and I really want to know if he's booked in for another. Urge to contact is strong. It's three weeks now since I last saw him, that's the longest we've gone in 20 years and massively long in terms of not speaking to one another which used to happen two or three times a day even when he was working away from home. There seem to be a lot of separated or divorced people on the forum, are there many for whom the techniques do actually work?