Cadet please keep telling me his lips are moving that is how I know he is lying. And keep bonking me over the head with it.

I don’t want to be in denial anymore. I start to feel sorry for H at times and accept crappy behaviour. If I keep remembering what it was like when he first pursued me right in the beginning, he was extremely capable of doing and saying the right things. And as hard as it is to admit, (ruminating the words of XW from last week when she told me how wonderful and supportive H has been to her recently), he is freaking doing that with another woman!!!

For God’s sakes… I need the honesty and the pinches on the arm from you all. Kind18 has pinched me a couple of times.

Kanga (Queen of Denial)

Me 49
H 61
T 8yrs
M 1.5yrs
LAT
H filed for D from XW ‘18, granted ‘19
We M ‘22
H in EA with XW (lying about contact, evidence of Affair contact)
BD Aug ‘23