Hi Iolietta. Welcome to the board. I’m very sorry to hear what you’re going through. I’m all too familiar with the pain and confusion of a spouse that suddenly walks away.

You are in a great place. There are some vets here that are amazing. I wouldnt call myself that even though my profile is 9 years old. I’m going through my second separation and probably divorce. I wont throw a bunch of advice at you right now just because I’m also raw right now from my separation. I just wanted to say welcome. But one thing I will say is dont give in to those urges to pursue him right now. I know you want to keep yourself in his mind, but doing so will have the opposite effect of what you want. It will push him further away.

If you havent already, read some of the pinned threads on this message board. I’d start with Sandi’s Rules

Last edited by Card29; 09/08/23 09:09 AM.
Me 38, WAW 30
D11 (former marriage)
S2
T 8 years
M 3 years
BD 8/20/23
S 8/20/23